True Love Story: A Couple's Heartbreak

           A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the apple of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for work so he asked the wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. The mother, preoccupied in the kitchen, totally forgot the matter.

           The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle and, fascinated with its color, drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed, the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband.

When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just four words.

What do you think were the four words?

The husband just said "I Love You Darling"

          The husband's totally unexpected reaction is proactive behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he have taken time to keep the bottle away, this will not have happened. No point in attaching blame. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her.

Sometimes we spend time asking who is responsible or who to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. We miss out some warmth in human relationship in giving each other support. After all, shouldn't forgiving someone we love be the easiest thing in the world to do? Treasure what you have. Don't multiply pain, anguish and suffering by holding on to forgiveness.

           If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world.

Take off all your envies, jealousies, unwillingness to forgive, selfishness, and fears and you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.

FIRST TIME

Hari nie first time aku pegi kls memandu....mmg cuak abes ar.Instructor aku (Pak Mat) tu nak kata garang...ermmmm, tak jugak  tp ada masa ak kene marah gak...ish..takut yg amat. Dah ar Pak Mat ckp kt ak cmnie.."Pernah maen kete kt arked x???". Bile ak ckp x, die gelak.."Patut lar, balik nie jgn lupe pegi maen kete kt arked tu. 8 jam pun xpe". Aku tanya kat diri aku sendiri.."ish, teruk sgt ke ak bwk kete??? Ngeeee..."Aku dah lar mne pernah pegang stereng sambil kete bergerak...Takut gak langgar org laen yg tengah try bwk kete and motor. Kang ada yg mati katak sbb aku yg ntah pape.... Tak taw camne nak bg gambaran time bwk kete tu. Gemuruh tu mmg ad...sgt ADA dan mmg byk. Coz Pak Mat aku tu siap boleh ckp cmnie g.."Awak time bwk kete mmg kasar..Bkn kasar ape cume awak nervous...Npe nak kene nervous..Bwk mcm biasa kan boleh. Kepala tu tegak jer...Xyah nk tgk gear n handbreak. Relax je k ". Mmg lar boleh tp bile die suruh ak berhenti, mesti ak lupe nak kene tekan cluth n break serentak...Ehhh, tp aku rasa aku dah tekan clutch, cmne kereta tue boleh mati enjin plak...Aku rasa aku try blaja berhenti dekat 4 kali kot tp cuma satu jer menjadi. Tu pun time nak dkt balik.. Pak Mat tu suh aku parking kete (yg ak ngah bwk) kat sebelah kete dia. Aku pun wat yg terbaek ar....Nie lar first time ak tekan break dgn smoothnyer....Hehehe..fuh, lega sikit...Dah kuar kete Pak Mat tnye apa yg aku rase...Aku pun fikir, nak ckp ape lar kt die nie...Errmmm,"Lega ckit dah sbb dh blh bwk kete dgn siap park". Pastu dia suruh aku tgk cara aku park. aku pun tgk lar...Ok jer...Lg pn aku blm blaja park lagi..."Tu ok jer. Blh pun.Bkn susah mane kan????". Iye lar Pak Mat...Habis minum air (sbb dh  haus sgt), aku ajak Pak Din (abg Pak Mat) balik....Sembang, sembang, sembang....Die stop kete kat tepi jalan b4 nak masuk simpang nak g Putrajaya. Die suruh aku plak ganti dia bwk kete. Aku dah cuak abes. Giler ape????Kalo xde kete lain lar, nie kete pn byk gak kt jalan raya tu. Pak Din ckp xpe...kita bwk slow-slow jer. Aku pun pindah lar tmpt duduk dgn die.Bes gak but in da same time, jantung aku nie rasa cm nak terkeluar sbb cuak sgt.....Sambil jln tu Pak Din ckp..."Dgn Shahirah jer Pak Din bg chance bwk kete ats jalan raya walaupun ari nie first time balaja.Biasanyer, dgn org laen time kedua @ ketiga. Sebab Pak Din nmpak Shahirah blh bwk dah". Dlm ati aku ckp...Ye ke Pak Din????? Abes tu npe Pak Mat cam nak nangis jer ajar aju td...Pelik gk...Ntah lar...Yg penting aku happy sbb aku blh balik umah (bwk kete sendiri) dgn selamatnye.

P/S : Pas masuk umah, aku rasa kaki ak menggeletar....Fuhfuhfuh....:)

KESENGALAN

Hari nie aku baik hati sesangat nak tolong mak aku g bayar saman die.....ala RM 30 jer...Kuar umah dalam pukul 2 ptg. Sampai alamanda pukul 2.15....jln ckit,masok pejabat pos dlm pukul 2.30....ok ar even nmpk org ngah baris panjang.....relax beb...baris.....baris....baris....tgk jam dh pukul 3....dh stat panas dh nie sbb org x gerak langsung. Tukar turn dgn akak aku plak.Aku g tgk kedai cd....sje ar nk tgk citer korea pe yg ad...padahal x beli pn...buat notes dlm phone sbb nnt nk download.HEHEHEHE....jahat kan????then, kuar je tros g famous amos, bantai aiskrim die.leak kat luar pejabat pos tu sambil mkn aiskrim n bce novel.....Tgk jam g, dh pukul 4, akak aku x kuar lg dr pejabat pos tue. Nak bg aiskrim kt die tp dh cair. So, aku pun masok pejabat pos tue nk ganti die n pass aiskrim tu. Aku pun baris ar cm besa. Kali nie ok ar sbb dh nmpk org dh gerak dr line tue. Dlm ati ckp..."kalo pukul 4.15 x sampai turn ak,mmg nk kne sound ar akak pejabat pos nie"....bile tgk jam blek, dh pukul 4.20,lg ar panas tp aku cube bersabar ckit ar.....dlm 4.30, aku dh hangin satu bdn nie..bkn ramai pun org dpn aku, cume ad 3 org jer...tp punya lmbt nak mampos. Naseb baik ad mp3 ak....pe g, aku pun pasang ar kuat-kuat. sabar...sabar...sabar. ikut iman yg ciput dlm diri aku nie, nak aje aku hempas pc akak pejabat pos tu kat kepala die. Baru puas ati aku. Pukul 5.15, akak aku dtg, suh duduk plak...biar dia ganti...aku pun kuar ar dr pejabat pos tu sbb org makin ramai. 5.30 aku masok pejabat pos tu lg skali....dh jd cm bilik aku plak...maen kluar masok jer.   =)      aku g dpn akak pejabat pos tue sambil buat muke x puas ati.....die ckp,jp ek ngah try nk masok num ic...ak pun diam jer ar....x lame pastu,dorang nyer big boss kuar dr bilik die ckp line wifi x elok sgt....kiranye cam x dpt on9 lar kan???dah ar gaya cakap cam nak merasa makan kasut aku jer. Aku pun tros tarik akak aku kuar dr situ. Dlm ati membara jer....pastu mak aku kol, ckp xyah byr kalo x dpt jgk...ingat nak beli CRISPY POPIAH tp x sempat sbb mak aku nak sampai alam, nak amek ktorg sbb ayah aku nak g umah opah plak mlm satgi. Otw nak kuar alam tu, aku suruh akak aku singgah Secret Recipe, beli 2-3 kek n aku singgah RotiBoy....mmg suka sgt roti-roti nie...hehehehe...YuMMy...(^_^).....

Bayangkan aku abes kan masa lbh kurang 3 jam kat pejabat pos tu utk bayar saman rm30 jer.....mmg kasi hangin ar kan....tgk wayang n mkn popiah tu pn x pe....lg berbaloi....

So,the moral of the story.....JGN AR BG ADA SAMAN